Be thoughtful.

Thoughtfulness is based on a whole range of beautiful emotions like joy, happiness, loyalty, friendship etc. The truth is, you don't have to spend a great deal of time, money and effort over it.

• Make happiness a priority
• Truly do things out of love
• Really think about the happy times spent together and the reason why you're with them.  

5 minutes or less (minimal effort) Remember it's the small things.

• Send a nice Text. 

• If someone hugs you, pull them back so it last a little longer.
• Hello/Good bye, Please, yes/no thank you and Pardon. Manners is sexy and courteous at the same time. 
• Asking about their day, really shows them that you care. 
• Use social networking positively. Leave nice messages and write steam emails.   

30 minutes or less. (average effort) 

• Keep a monthly schedule so you can track special dates. Honour them on Birthday, Anniversaries, special days, non-special days etc. I usually try to do something nice once a month.
  Also note interesting things you learn from and about the person. Be mindful. 
• Call the person and be engaging. Don't multi-task, that's just rude!!! Listening is a skill, practice it.
• Gift certificates can be purchased online. Massage is always appreciated by both sexes. 
• Make breakfast in bed or order coffee online with Star buck for pickup.
  
  

  

  Blue Haven Hotel. (Surprise Birthday weekend)

  1 hr +     
  Including those we love in our day to day lives is so important. Be extraordinary and go the distance. You can spend as much or as little money as necessary. 
• Spend time with them. Have a date online. Order a pizza with the same ingredients
  SKYPE, Viber, facebook etc. 
• Send them a recipe and have them cook online. (Major fun). 
• Coordinate an awesome surprise party for them.
• Go on a picnic
• Secret vacations are awesome and greatly appreciated. Take care of all the details.